Best, Best, My girlfriend told me that she needs some personal space. Our relationship is not a dating one, but more like a married couple, we have been living together for a long time and have children together. So, you must to get her forgiveness. As you said give space dont call , dont text okay i ll do that but do you think after doing this all she will come back ? i dont understand.she repeat 4 times will see.until now.she act like ghost.after last call. Apollonia. If you are interested in a private coaching session here is the link where you can schedule it and I can give you tailored advice to your relationship. I accused her that it is because she found someone of which she saids its not true.. Thank you very much for your support and kind words. doesnt she feel the same way and how is this possible that a girl who was telling me that she was missing me few days back now dont love me anymore? 2. Katy Apollonias Assistant. 39 thoughts every girl has when I think that maybe for now we take Apollonia, SEARCH IN THE CURRENT So now after we had a talk few days ago, instead of breaking up she said we should take a break and give her space to think about her feelings for the next 7 days. The relationship went very quickly. What should I do? She said she doesnt want to live with me and feels like the past 5 yrs has been a waste. Best, That is where the issue lies in that relationship. i dont know where to start and what to do. Should I contact her or send her flowers? I agreed with her that we have been spending a bit too much time together too soon and agreed we should back off on how much time we spend together. I love her more than my cheating wife. Ive been with my gf for a year now. So when she started to pull away I thought it was bc of her depression. Its really hard not too and her removing our pictures etc was heartbreaking shes never taken things this far before. Shes always looking to create problems in your life. Thank you for contacting us, So i say i feel like you dont even want to be with me anymore she says maybe i dont and then says no because i think she was mad. Hang out with your friends because at this point you probably havent been hanging out with your friends as much. Having facts can be helpful for normalizing this conversation with your partner. Im going to leave her be and hopefully shell reach out to me. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/, I Apollonia and Ponti They is this lady i met we are currently dating she lost her husband 2years ago, she just told me that she feels like she is cheating on her dead husband that she cant talk to me anymore that i should give her some time So if she is being disrespectful and going out and saying she isnt going to tell you then this is when you should walk away and go radio silent for a while. Basically causing her to realize she had someone good and she should come back. So I tried to dig deeper and she says that she thought she was ready for a relationship and she did really like me and how I might now think that she led me on. Apollonias team. This is the only way that you can dissect the relationship to see what you might have done wrong and how you can overcome this so you can support your partner now through positive actions and change. Thanks for your support and reading my blogs and watching my videos. If she asked for space I would recommend you giving it to her and not texting her. She tells me we both need to work on ourselves and find inner happiness. Hi Mario, Now Ive reflected upon myself, I saw my faults, I blamed the world for our lack of time to see each other when I was the one that chose this job and chose to date her, I have to find the balance, and further I started training again, fixing my woodwork machine, Ive doing a lot and I feel so much more happier, confident and just amazing, yet we still talked, and then I told her last night, after she said that she still doesnt feel ready to see me, that maybe we should not talk at all, cause I was the knife and by talking to me were just opening the wound and not healing it, she felt like she didnt want to break all contact, but Im trying to break it. Insecure and depressed. If it wasnt a relationship breaker, they might heal with time. Honor her space. she has diagnosed anxiety and depression, and has a lot going on in life currently, and said handling a relationship is not good for her right now. She will either come back and you can try again and go slow, or start dating other women. I suggest you book one with me so we can get things going. i had a bestfriend for 10months and lastmonth she asked me space and said she will call after 3days but i dont know real meaning of space in friendship and i thought jus a nrml break for her and i always respect her for that. She was my staff but a few months ago ttansfered to another company. she stated she hoped I wasnt. I am the main bread winner in the house. And especially for Friday she said idk before I met you I used to come home on fridays and relax and now I cant and I dont want to always have to entertain you when I wanna relax. I never once prevented her from taking care of herself if not, I would be the one looking out for her health and well being. Best, I didnt see how much she cared for me till she found me on a dating site. Im not worried or jealous thinking she would be with another. I have dated enough to know shes very genuine and honest person and a wonderful girl. Loving the positivity! These fights would always affect my ex and I but we always made it work. Hi there, I enjoyed the article that you wrote. I couldnt talk to her at all. Thank you for your answer (: Hello Francis, I dont like this uncertainty and while I believe and trust her as mentioned earlier (never given me a reason to not) I get concerned she might be talking to someone and afraid to tell me, but my female friend who kind of knows her said I highly doubt that as she would be honest and is just guarding herself right now. A week on and she says she cant be back in this relationship at the moment and she needs time and space to work herself out. These tips are listed below. I wake up Sunday morning and i say good morning. We have an incredible amount of valuable content on our youtube channel at no cost. Whats the best path to take my mind down during this time of space? As humans sometimes when we are feeling a little overwhelmed we can lash out and just need some time to gather ourselves and it seems, to me at least, like that could be whats going on. Any text or conversation Ive been the one to initiate it. Maybe youd like them not to use derogatory language when talking about menstruation?). What do i do, i really like this girl and i wanna help her by being the best boyfriend i can be. She used to make me feel like a macho stud, but now Im feeling more like a nerdy mamas boy. One of our amazing coaches could give you solid advice once they have more details on the situation. Her attitude changed a lot and she says mine changed too. My Girlfriend of 7 years has been distant for a couple of years and always wants her space. She then says she needs space so I said ok. Well she would txt me goodnight and goodmorning and how my day was going. Your goals, your life focus back on what makes YOU happy. She asked me if i dont feel guilty, i did not respond. She works with men to attract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills, and helps rebuild relationships. How horrifying is it when she says she needs space!? I asked her how long and she stated a week. Psychology Today https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ Apollonias team, Hi Apollonia Team Apollonia. Dear Apollonia, I simply said if she changed her mind, to let me know cause i still want to go out. I am thinking that if i will not text her, she might take it as if i dont care anymore about her. I asked if there is anyone else and she said no. I would always check in on her classes and and schooling and grades and gave positive input and talked to her on how she can reach her goal on nursing school and that whichever route she will take whether its school or work, I will always support her decision. Is 5 months not enough time? What I suggest is really looking into the relationship and seeing where the lack came from and changing this. I would book a private coaching session if you need more help, but youve got this. I know this might not elicit a reply, but tried to take the advice when a girl i liked asked me to give her space. Best of luck with everything cuz she took stand for me in evry worst situation and now i know i made mistake after seeing ur videos and articles will she ever initiate call or text or it jus over from her side??? And my sudden neediness. Apollonia. Thank you for reading, When she says she needs space, heres what to do! In order to get advice pertaining to your situation, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with her so she can help. Let her start to initiate hanging out with you. Or at least it is a reaction of all the issues Ive been having in this new place. Apollonia. My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Wouldnt Commit We got really close and were even talking about marriage. We have a long distance relationship and see each other on weekends so how much more space could I give her. During the next couple weeks I was working on better myself and overall attitude. What does this mean? I am not 100% sure that this guy is just a friend. But i was always the one to visit her as she has own place her and i dont she knew i am easy to talk to so can ask to leave I think maybe i said i love you and miss you a few times AFTER 3 months or more and a few home made pressies . A lot of I Dont know if I can do this anymore and tears. I said many things to her. Hope this helps! But I really dont know what to do right now, give her space? It sounds like were making boundaries and then breaking them. We havent texted all day and I just dont know what to do or how to feel. Social media wise, we still watched our stories. What do I do? She said she loves me but confused about me.then we had some short arguments. What Women Want in a Man: 15 Traits Women are Looking for in a Man Right Now. Apollonia. WebMe [16F] I don't understand why my family hates me so much?
